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Thanks for replying. I realize we aren't arguing just relaying what each of us knows. I know from good people in these places because it is only due to one that I am alive and able to be writing this. But you must realize to an abused child the abuse is all the exists until they are taken away from it even if there are nice things going on in between the episodes of abuse. And often the nice things just don't get mentioned. Why take on responsibility for what others did?
I also came here today to address something I read on here a few weeks ago but don't want to look up today. The person posted about how they saw patients on the street who always waved at them and their mother told them not to wave back because they would follow you home. They posted this as if it were some sort of proof of defectiveness at least that is how I took it. It isn't.
That sort of sudden attachment is due to being starved for affection. They were probably never treated like normal people. I'm sure no one took time to get to know them personally and have personal discussions with them that all children need let alone allowed them to emotionally bond and learn about being human because along with that idea of following you home and many other urban legends and distortions of normal behavior until the mid 70's emotional attachment wasn't even acknowledged as being essential for human development. Many abusers used knowledge that it was and the false concept that it wasn't in practice this to inflict torment and use the reaction to that torment as an excuse for some physical punishment.
The lack emotional attachment to a specific person makes people do things that others who have had it but aren't aware of it will misinterpret. When you see teen boys or even men who attach too quickly to women this is what that is. They have been starved for affection and also probably starved of proper prepubescent opposite sex bonding experiences. The early life relationships with the opposite sex sets the pattern for ones behavior and ability as an adult unless one knows and acts to try to learn what is missing one is stuck with what one learned as a child. Thus if all the members of the opposite sex are dishonest and untrustworthy as a child one cannot trust the opposite sex as an adult. But one only knows untrustworthy people whom one loved so one is doomed to pick untrustworthy opposite sex partners as that is all one knows. Honest partners will often trigger fear and make one pull away due to not being able to understand it.
Well there's my rant have a nice day
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As someone who was in a similar institution as a child I can assure you these things do happen and most employees do not witness them or know of them. After all the perps know it is wrong and take pains to hide it.
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And secondly in the 11 years I worked there I did not witness the atrocities that you believe took place on a daily basis. Things had improved and most likely if we would have remained open would have continued to improve. I NEVER said things were less than ideal throughout the history of Pennhurst. What I said was when I worked there it wasn't that bad. And that's great that your friend has done extensive research but has she ever worked there? I think not. Has she ever worked in an institutional setting? Probably not. Sometimes first hand knowlege can be believed. It's ok.
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