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We haven't spent any of her money but the New England family has. I don't think they are spending too much--I think they have spent it all and now have no futher use for the old woman.
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We are going up to visit her soon. Do you think that if we call ahead of time the AG will be able to help?
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Yes, they do have Power of Attorney but they certainly DO NOT have her best interests at hand. All that we have been able to find out is that they won't let her have a phone in her room because every chance she gets she talks about what is being done to her. Very few people have spoken to her within the last six months but those who have said that she has sounded totally sane and desperate to "Escape from this hellhole." Her words Lynne please don't get mad I'm just quoting. :-)
What a mess right? All I know is that her money is disappearing because all "the kids" (aka nieces and nephews and their spouses) are spending her money like it was growing from a tree.
They have my Great Aunt listed as demented so even if she rages on about being treated poorly the family just puts it down as the ramblings of an elderly lunatic. We have tried to call her niece a few times but she hangs up the phone on us. Now she won't even answer it because they know we are trying to help my Great Aunt.
When I say "us" I mean NY family versus New England family by the way.
Okay now here is the really screwed up thing--I told you this was a small town right? Well, the doctor who diagnosed my Aunt as being senile (my Great Aunt's nieces husband) is one of the towns rich boys.
"Family doctor" as I will call him here is the son of a powerful town politician who opened the nursing home my Great Aunt is now imprisoned in back in the 1980s. He's dead now so "family doctor" runs the place and rules with an iron fist. That is why they moved her into that nursing home, so family can keep an eye on her. Also that is why I think no nurses or anyone will speak up for her--they are afraid of angering the boss. Did I mention that the other doctors in the nursing home are "family doctor's" brothers, cousins or VERY close friends from childhood?
Basically my Great Aunt has enough money for everyone involved to be feeding off of. We know that she had about $700,000 in her bank account alone. What's more, her three older sisters (all dead now) also never married, had no children and were very wealthy so when they died they left her all their money. My Great Aunt could have well over a million for all we know and everyone involved with putting her away have got a share of it from the sound of it. Again, she's my Great Aunt--it's my Mom who's really close to her because Great Aunt was good to Mom when she was a kid and would go for visits.
I know we aren't supposed to have conversations on these threads but I hope this is left up. If this is what is happening at a nursing home can you imagine some of the things that went on in these asylums bak in the day?
Again I'm not trying to argue about staff or anything with Lynne I just think my Aunt's case is that one in a million example of what can go wrong with living systems. The fact that this is a small town situation doesn't make this any better.
It's just sickening that this could actually happen! And to such a sweet woman too!
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